She Was Once Your Queen

Dear Husband,

Don’t take for granted that you get to wake up next to the woman who said “I do” to you. Hurt and disappointment may have put walls between you, but remember there was a time you didn’t want to live another day without her. …. . .

Bobby Wasn’t a Man

Bobby was as tall as a man, tried to act like a man, had a pretty young lady by his side, but 17 year old Bobby wasn’t a man. To offer forgiveness and grace to others while ready to throw a stone of judgment at my 17 year old self was hypocritical.

Overcoming Regret pt. 2: Celebrate What “Is” Instead of “What’s Not”

Overcoming Regret Pt. 2: We are all celebrating, making much of, something today? When I made much of what was missing, I couldn’t see all the goodness around me. To overcome regret and disappointment we will need to learn to celebrate what “is” instead of “what’s not”.

Overcoming Regret pt. 1: Good Grief 

Where do we begin the process of overcoming regret? Good grief. Healthy grief allows us to clarify our values, hold on to what is good and move toward what is best.