For years I believed that seeking to please people was kind and loving. I was shocked to find out that my efforts to do so often had a selfish motive.
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Your Choice: Connection or Control?
Fear leads us to try and control for self protection or connection but real love only exists when there is real freedom. We can have connection or control but we can’t have both.
“Why, God?”
Sometimes I ask, “why, God?” I don’t know if He has ever answered that prayer. Here’s a couple things to do and a better prayer to pray when asking, “why, God?”
Circle of Fire
A man took three years to build a circle of twelve stones that he set on fire and it changed the world.
Are You Difficult To Care For?
Would you say that you are easy or difficult to care for?
Here are three questions to help determine if you are making it difficult for others to care for you.
No ‘Self’ Punching
Would you defend your friend if they were being attacked and insulted? What if the one throwing the punches at us is our self?
Learning to Love the Journey
Originally posted on Love the Journey:
Over the years, I have had a few mentors and friends encourage me to write a…
Who Knows You?
The safeguard for being more “known” is being more known.